About

Thank you for understanding that I’m not the time dedicated person it takes, nor the employer of the professional team; that’s often behind brilliant marketing, ingenious brand awareness, and stellar mid ceremony photo captures.

It’s simply not a priority for me to spend hours on social media posts or to write magazine articles & blogs, record podcasts, or pay for layers of advertising and staff without being called to do so.

I’ve never wanted to be a headline act, or a business mogul, and I enjoy being a little hard to find because I don’t want the quality problem of being booked beyond my capacity or pressured to have to say “no” to amazing couples or the experiences that are still on my bucket list. 

I desire balance, and to navigate my business and life from inspiration, innovation and intuition. 

I like feeling that everything I do rises from the fiercely loving, compassionate self that I know is at my core and not the one that may operate from my triggers, ego or those split off, wounded, albeit well-meaning defenders.

Also thank you for understanding if I offend or disappoint you by declining to send you the “sample ceremonies” you request as potential clients, or give a reciprocated social platform follow back to your support of my work, as fellow celebrants and industry greats. 

It’s simply because I’m in this business to exclusively hear and serve my couples and their unique connections, to edify their experiences, history and influences and to keep what’s entrusted to me, in capturing all that, sacred.

It’s my calling to make their stories and serendipitous coupling into the kind of keepsake art, that emotes, celebrates, authenticates and validates them and their inner circle. 

Reading the ceremonies of others won’t resonate with you because it’s their vault and future of possibilities that’s captured. 

I can’t sell you on their ceremony, or my ability, I can only listen to bespokely innovate yours. 

Fulfilling these dreams of mine, requires me to be remain focused within, and true to my core self. 

It means I’m constantly choosing to be deliberately unaware of what others are doing, because I’ve learned that outside influence skews my view.

Honestly, watching what others were doing in the past, raised feelings of insecurity, comparison, and competition in me and I while wholeheartedly know I’m doing exactly what I want, in the precise way I want it, it’s impossible for me to not question if I should be doing more and sometimes what my inspirational colleagues are doing. 

I choose to compete only against myself, to evolve and produce better work each and every time. 

I’ll keep pushing myself artistically to ensure I don’t get complacent, so as to maintain the bespoke, interesting and always different style that’s my trademark.

I absolutely believe in community over competition and I respect and appreciate the vast styles and approaches that have emerged over the last 14 years I’ve been celebranting and I’m cheering for you- maybe just not in the way that’s usual or expected. 

Maybe my modus operandi is selfish, maybe it’s self- preservation, maybe it’s masterful – I don’t know, I just know it’s me and it works for me. and the people I get entrusted to share this beautiful space with in their lives.